huggytree
09-18-2011, 10:26 AM
a long time builder had a bad breakup with his carpenter....the builder lost a large project and his carpenter got the job instead...the builder lost the largr project for a number of reasons, but blames the carpenter for bad mouthing(that isnt the real reason though)
i am friends with and work with both of them...........the builder told me i was not 'allowed' to work on this large project with his ex-carpenter....i said ok(even though i kinda that who the heck do you think you are telling me what my business can do)..........the ex-carpenter gave me the plan for the house and it was 100percent different than the builders version and i found out all the reasons the customer dumped the original builder...........
the original builder was almost out of business(at the time) and the ex-carpenter was on the upswing with tons of work....i decided to do the house behind the back of the original builder....i even used a friends master plumber license # on the permit so my name wouldnt be on the house...i worked odd hours on the house to avoid him seeing my van...............
the original builder has made a recent come back...ive been working on his projects lately.....he brought up the subject with me and said 'he knew'.....i said sorry and 'i have to feed my family'.....his response is 'i cant trust you anymore since you said you wouldnt'.....things got pretty quiet after that between us that day(we were working on the same project).........i am bidding on his future projects and it sounds like im still his plumber.........
in the past he's been a $50,000 a year customer, but last year he was more like $10,000...........this year he will be back to $50,000 though
he has 'commanded' me not to do other projects in the past and ive done as he asks...this time i didnt because his reasoning was unjustified and i wanted to also work with his ex-carpenter(the house in question was a $20,000 project)
anything i can do to salvage this relationship???? i think it will just blow over as long as i continue to do a quality job on his projects
i am friends with and work with both of them...........the builder told me i was not 'allowed' to work on this large project with his ex-carpenter....i said ok(even though i kinda that who the heck do you think you are telling me what my business can do)..........the ex-carpenter gave me the plan for the house and it was 100percent different than the builders version and i found out all the reasons the customer dumped the original builder...........
the original builder was almost out of business(at the time) and the ex-carpenter was on the upswing with tons of work....i decided to do the house behind the back of the original builder....i even used a friends master plumber license # on the permit so my name wouldnt be on the house...i worked odd hours on the house to avoid him seeing my van...............
the original builder has made a recent come back...ive been working on his projects lately.....he brought up the subject with me and said 'he knew'.....i said sorry and 'i have to feed my family'.....his response is 'i cant trust you anymore since you said you wouldnt'.....things got pretty quiet after that between us that day(we were working on the same project).........i am bidding on his future projects and it sounds like im still his plumber.........
in the past he's been a $50,000 a year customer, but last year he was more like $10,000...........this year he will be back to $50,000 though
he has 'commanded' me not to do other projects in the past and ive done as he asks...this time i didnt because his reasoning was unjustified and i wanted to also work with his ex-carpenter(the house in question was a $20,000 project)
anything i can do to salvage this relationship???? i think it will just blow over as long as i continue to do a quality job on his projects